A wife, husband, or loved one that is also the primary caregiver of someone with aphasia.

Starting Over

If I could describe Aphasia in one word, it would be (challenging. February 16, 2012 is a day I would like to forget but I can’t because we live with the challenges every single day! My husband underwent what was to be a routine procedure to clear plaque from his left arteries. He presented fine…

getting positive regarding aphasia

each day brings new challenges but meeting those challenges is what my beloved husband most deserves. This illness has changed both of us for the better. Each day brings us a new appreciation for the things we have. We have the Lingraphica tablet to help us communicate, we have a wonderful support system of friends…

The sound of silence is deafening

0n Jan 16, 2023, my husband suffered a cryptogenic large vessel stroke. He is learning to live with multiple challenges, the largest being aphasia. In his eyes I can see the wheels spinning and the lights are on but there is no two way traffic. I spend 75% of my time guessing what he wants…

Paul my loved one

This is a Finding Words story! My husband Paul was working the day before it happened. He is an economist and teached at the university in Montreal. He is suffering global aphasia and apraxie.following a AV C in 2015 He cannot talk, read or write or count, h motricity is good. It is the mots…

My Mom’s Journey

On August 26, 2008, just 2 weeks short of her 75th birthday, my mother, Ollie Baljkas, suffered a triple infarction CVA, a stroke that damaged 2 of the speech centres of the brain. Her stroke-related hemiplegia has almost disappeared, but her expressive (or fluent) aphasia continues. From birth, my mom never had an easy life…

My Tour Guide no longer has a voice

My darling husband Jim had won on Jeopardy, was full of facts on a NYC public radio program every week, and was the best unofficial tour guide of NYC, especially architectural wonders. A severe stroke in 2008 left him with hardly any ability to speak any more. He can barely write full words or sentences.…

My Sister’s Journey

My sister Marie was diagnosed with corticobasal degeneration (CBD). It took a long time for this diagnosis to occur. Her difficulties started with problems with speech–slurring of words and enunciation. She had visits with a speech pathologist, and this helped her use her voice for as long as possible. In time, however, her speech became…